An Author’s Journal: It’s OK to Ask for Help

Open journal and historic photos. Kathy L Brown Writes An Author's Journal
Make two lists: one of high-priority items and the other of things that can wait. Do everything on both lists or beat yourself up about the items you don’t complete. Visit the Shop for links to stories. (Images courtesy Missouri History Museum, Pixabay, and author’s collection)

I’ve just employed someone to help me with my website’s under-the-hood aspects. Most creatives I know dream of the day the income stream is such that they can hire out the parts of their business that don’t involve actual art creation. But it was a hard step for me, and I ask myself why.

Control Freaks Need Help

Often people who most need help don’t want it. For…reasons, ceding any control to someone else is hard. We have a whole list of excuses: “I don’t want to explain the task,” “I want things done my way,” “I don’t trust anyone to do the job correctly,” “I don’t want to follow-up on the task with my employee,” and “I don’t want to spend money on this task.” You can likely think of a few yourself.

What’s This Really About?

I think for me, the tipping point is my enjoyment of the task and satisfaction from mastering it. In this case, I’m hiring out website design and functionality. Learning new things is a source of joy and pride for me, and setting up my website was hard but ultimately satisfying. However, it took away writing time. (And promo time. And marketing. And all those other things an author must do.)

Yet, it’s time for some platform upgrades, and I just can’t face it. I’ve creative projects in the works and other demands. The technology’s not intuitive for me, and the learning curve steep. Also, it makes me feel very old. (Perhaps that’s the problem, right there.)

Gentle Help

Anyway, I know the advice I give other people, all the time: If you don’t enjoy it (anymore), don’t do it. Hire a professional. Tell people what you need. Your time is valuable. 

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How about you? Can you delegate? Do you need to control every aspect of your work? Is getting help a sign of weakness? I’d love to hear your ideas. Comment on the blog. Navigate to my website, click blog title, and complete dialogue box that will open at the end of the post. 

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